Threesome - You’ve learned jealousy from all the people around you, including your parents.

Most people have three core beliefs about relationships that are guaranteed to create jealousy even in the most sexual liberal thinking people.

The sad thing is that most of us have absorbed these beliefs without even realizing it!

Identifying and dismantling these beliefs in our mind and heart is the single most effective way to short-circuit jealousy. The reason why the idea of a threesome is unthinkable to many people is because they’ve been “programmed” this way.

Jealousy Belief #1

If my partner really loved me, he/she wouldn’t have sexual desires for anyone else but me.

This belief sees any interest your partner has in anyone else as a direct reflection of how much he or she loves you. It’s a quantitative view of love which equates the amount of love with the ability to be interested in having another partner.

This is nuts isn’t it?

We are sexual beings and it is normal to fantasize about being with other people. Denying these feelings goes against our nature.

Jealousy Belief #2

My partner can only be interested in some one else if I’m not a good enough in bed.

This belief is even more sinister!

With the previous belief you could at least blame it on your partner for not loving you enough.

This belief says that if your partner is interested in someone else, it’s your fault for not being the perfect lover or spouse therefore your relationship must be a failure.

If you truly believe that your lover could only be interested in another partner because you’re inadequate, you can see how that will generate jealousy big time!

Jealousy Belief #3

It’s impossible to share love with more than one person at the same time.

This belief is built on the "scarcity economy” of love; the belief that love is a scarce resource, that only so much goes around and that there’s never enough for all.

If my partner gives away love (time, love, affection, sex, support) to anyone else, that means that there is less for me.

This belief creates fear and uncertainty. If this belief were true, then a mother wouldn’t be able to her love her first child as much after she gives birth to the second child because she would have to divide her love between two.

In my eyes love is infinite, and the more you give the more you will receive.

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